Correspondence with Pandora Blake

This may be of interest to some of you on here. I recently, about a month back sent an email to Pandora Blake, a world renowned spanking and fetish model and producer. I wanted to compliment her on her content, specifically the audio stories which are very unique to her website. There is one in particular story that really grabbed my interest and was the entire reason I even subscribed to her website in the first place. It alone was worth the price of admission in my opinion. It was called Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush and has all the trappings of traditional over the knee hand and hairbrush spanking in it. Pandora herself reads the story aloud and is able to add inflection to the right areas and it just transports you to the scenes she is describing. Audio spanking stories are an underappreciated medium which I wish more spanking producers would make, as I personally love them. Anyway, I sent her an email to compliment her on this audio spanking story that I loved and on her content in general. Well, just yesterday I got an email back from her and it sounds like my email really brighten her day.

My email to Pandora

Hi Pandora,

My name is HonestRespectfulGuy, and I am a huge fan of your work. I love you in videos; you can certainly take a very hard spanking and seem to enjoy doing so. I still remember one of the first videos I think I saw you in on Sarah Gregory’s site Mommas Spankings titled Swimsuit Spankings. Both you and Sarah get spanked by Dana Specht. You both receive very hard hand spankings and you alone get spanked with the hairbrush. Have to imagine that it was pretty painful!! I did enjoy watching it though.

I wanted to thank you for your spanking audio stories on your own Dreams of Spanking website. Specifically, Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush which is my all-time favorite audio spanking story. This is an underappreciated medium and I wish more websites would do it. I loved this story so much for it’s realism and engaging dialog and characters, not to mention the spankings themselves. You do such an amazing job of describing the spankings, the fear and anticipation leading up to them and you can really just picture them in your mind. And you hit on one of my favorite things in spanking stories, and that is when it is told from a witness’s perspective. Being a voyeur spankee, I have always really enjoyed spanking stories told from a witness’s perspective and not enough of them seem to do that. I subscribed to your Dreams of Spanking website for this one spanking audio story and it alone was worth the price of admission. I wish I could send you stories of a similar vein, but I am just not that good of a writer myself. I hope you will do another story like Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush as I really love that traditional old fashioned spanking type of tale. The kind of tale that features good hard, over the knee, hand and hairbrush spanking. And that is why I loved this story so much!! It didn’t feel the need to elevate the punishment by using canes and switches, which really don’t interest me. I know not everything on your site is for me and that is ok. I know you need to do what you have a passion for and cover a wide range of different scenarios. That being said, if you can find the time to do another story like Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush, maybe a sequel, or something with the same kind of traditional old fashioned spanking in it, I would definitely be interested. As I said before, I subscribed for this one spanking audio story and I was not disappointed at all.

Anyways, hope you are doing well in the midst of this crazy pandemic!! A huge fan!!

HonestRespectfulGuy

Pandora’s Reply to me

HonestRespectfulGuy,

Thank you SO SO much for your email. I can promise you I read it as soon as it arrived because I immediately told members of my team that we had received the most lovely fanmail. It put a skip in my step when I really needed it, so thank you.

I can only apologise that it’s taken me this long to reply, in all my excitement I lost track of email. I would actually love to ask your permission to publish part of your message anonymously on the Dreams of Spanking blog if that would be okay? Your name and any identifying details would be removed to preserve your anonymity. If you could have a think and let me know, that would be great.

I couldn’t agree more about audio stories being an under appreciated medium. To the best of my knowledge, we’re the only site that produces audio spanking porn and I love that it sets us apart. For me personally I find that I can conjure up my own images with audio porn – there is no better storyteller than our imagination! We are absolutely going to continue to produce audio stories, so hopefully there will be plenty more to pique your interest.

As for Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush, I’d love to revisit the story and see where it takes us. If you’d be interested in commissioning a custom audio story, we could discuss creating a sequel with all of that traditional old fashioned spanking goodness that you enjoy so much. You can find out more details about this offering here: http://dreamsofspanking.com/customs

Thank you again for your lovely email, it really means so much. Take care, and I look forward to hearing from you soon!

Warm regards,
Pandora

Second Email to Pandora

Wow Pandora!!  Thank you so much for your email!!  I recognize that you must be extremely busy with producing and starring in all kinds of content for your own site and others, so the mere fact that you took the time to reply to me, makes me very happy.  I am glad to hear that my email brought a smile to your day.  I am a spanko through and through, if you haven’t already guessed that, and I have watched hundreds if not thousands of spanking videos, read hundreds of spanking stories but I am always on the hunt for more.  Now I guess I am very traditional in my tastes in that I almost exclusively like over the knee spanking mainly, with hand, hairbrush, slipper or some kind of small paddle.  This goes for stories, videos, pictures or anything related to spanking.  Maybe I would branch out if I ever get the chance to play with a spanking partner in real life, but that is primarily where my interests lie.  And that is why I so enjoy Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush as it is very traditional and I absolutely love the audio format.  As you said, it allows us to leave more to our own imaginations, which is a great thing.  The other video I really enjoyed on your site was The Refugees.  I liked the story, the setting, and the premise.  There aren’t many times I would care to say that I would go out of my way to watch boys being spanked, unless there is a girl in the scene that is also being spanked.  These scenes balanced that nicely and I really enjoyed them.


As far as publishing part of my email on your Dreams of Spanking forum, please do.  I am flattered that you would ask.  I appreciate what you guys do.  I recognize that you guys work very hard on producing quality content for the rest of us spankos that love to watch and consume it.  I for one am very appreciative for what you do!!


I cannot say I am a lifestyler like yourself, but I am very fascinated by the lifestyle.  I have recently been on some forums chatting with some spanked girls.  Some of the girls on this forum still get spanked by their parents even into their late teens or early to mid twenties, which is quite amazing to me.  I know it does happen, but I am still surprised it happens in 2020 and beyond.  I feel like the world at large looks down on spanking your kids, so it surprises me that there are still quite a number of people that are spanked by their parents to such a late age.  That being said, I certainly love to read about it and I have even started chatting with some of the wonderful ladies on these forums.   I have been completely open and honest about who I am, a 36-year-old man, and still they don’t mind talking to me.  Of course I always do my best to be kind and respectful of the people I chat with on these forums as that is the way I was raised and I have always believed strongly in the golden rule of doing unto others as you would have them do unto you.  But there are others that are on these forums that already are lifestylers and get spanked regularly in their lives and I get the impression it is for both pleasure and sometimes for discipline.  By the way, do you think it is possible for a spanko to be punished with a spanking?  I mean, isn’t that just giving them something that they like?  Or can there be enough of a difference in the type of spanking given that it is possible to be punished with a spanking if it is given as discipline?  I ask these questions because I am curious and want desperately to dive into this amazing world.  Problem is, I think I very much have switch tendencies.  I don’t want to be anyone’s dom, but I certainly wouldn’t say no to spanking a lovely female bottom that was willing.  But there is another part of me that wants and even feels like I need to be spanked at times.  For pleasure, maybe, but more for discipline to deal with past mistakes and some guilt I struggle with and to work on current habits that I need to create in my life.  And there are other times I just want to experiment.  I want to try being spanked with all the many implements I see these beautiful girls get spanked with.  Even implements I don’t care to watch a lot of videos about, like caning and switching, I would be curious to see how much I could actually take.  I know my limits are probably pretty low right now, but I would love to dive into this world and start pushing my limits.


As far as a custom, I would certainly not be opposed to the idea of a custom audio spanking story.  I checked out the link for your custom options and they seem extensive.  With the conversion to Canadian dollars though, it is probably out of my price range for right now.   I would either want a sequel to Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush or another story along those lines.  I love spanking stories told from a witness’s perspective.  Now, it is okay if said witness ends up getting spanked themselves eventually in the story, but I love it when they witness a spanking first and we get to hear about their thoughts and feelings as they are hearing someone else being punished.  Again, that is what I loved so much about Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush!!  It just pushed all the right buttons with me, the fear, the anticipation, and the way you describe the two cousins getting spanked in the first part of the story, you can easily visualize it in your mind.  Superb Work indeed!!   And you are right, you are basically one of the only games in town when it comes to spanking audio stories.  I did purchase a spanking story from Elizabeth Burns who has a site for spanking audio stories.  Unfortunately, most of her stories are about boys being spanked, which really doesn’t interest me, and only the one that I purchased featured a woman being spanked.  But other than that, you are the main one to feature full length stories in audio format and it is such a unique format.  I guess I would be interested in a spanking story that featured both boys and girls being spanked, just not anything that is only boys being spanked.  There are a number of things that appeal to me in a spanking story and you touched on a lot of them in your Aunt Gillian’s Hairbrush story.  Anticipation and a bit of lead up, scolding, lecturing and a good reason for the spanking.  I like it best when the spankers are parents or aunts or uncles or grandparents that are strict but loving with their correction.  I like it when the girls being spanked in the stories have a healthy amount of fear of what is going to happen to them


Anyways, maybe in the New Year we can look to create something together.  If money was no object, I could come up with no end of ideas I would love to see made into either a spanking story or even a video, but alas I must be wise with my money.  But I still would be interested in possibly doing some kind of custom with you for an audio story sometime in the future.  I will look over your custom site more and contact you again when I have a better idea what I might want to do.


In the meantime, I want to thank you for your email reply to me.  I am glad my email brought a smile to your face.  Please go ahead and post what you like of my email on your website.  It is great to chat with someone I consider one of the current legends of the Spanking Scene.  So, it always excites me to get a response from a spanking legend, because as I said, I know you are probably very busy.  And I am only too happy to take the time to send you an email and let you know how much I enjoy your content.  Sorry this was such a long email by the way, I do tend to be long winded at times.


A Huge Fan of your work,

HonestRespectfulGuy

Pandora’s Second Email to me

Hi HonestRespectfulGuy,

I’m really glad that you’ve enjoyed our work. I’m so pleased that you’ve discovered the joy of films with boys and girls being spanked together, because that’s something else that we don’t see much of elsewhere.

Thanks you for granting permission for me to post your email. I think it’s always lovely to share when we’ve really reached people, and so that
should be on the blog in the next week or so.

I actually do think it’s possible for a spanko to be punished with spanking. I’ve written about this quite a lot on my personal blog at pandorablake.com. For me, it’s about a difference in tone. The feeling that you’ve disappointed your top or that you’re in trouble can be really upsetting. It can also be a question of what is done during the spankings themselves. It can be made punishment by using an implement I don’t
enjoy, and done in a way I don’t enjoy with a tone that this is serious rather than for fun. That can be very effective and a real deterrent.

I’m really looking forward to hearing your audio ideas in the future, I’m sure you will have some fantastic plots in mind.

If I don’t speak to you before, I hope you have a lovely Christmas and we can speak again in the new year.

Warmest regards,
Pandora

So, there it is, my correspondence with Pandora Blake. She proved herself to be a very thoughtful and appreciative young woman. I was glad to have been able to brighten her day. I have not as of yet had the chance to do a custom with her, but it is still on my bucket list. I just have to come up with the perfect story for her to custom tailor to me. If I have any further correspondence with her, I will let you guys know.

HonestRespectfulGuy