Posted by Jason Gilbert
I have just learned about a new term that is apparently common in the spanko community, Funishments. I had never heard that phrase before just recently when I watched a video by Jillian Keenan explaining what a Domestic Discipline Relationship is. She talks about how funishments are a way to get a punishment like spanking without doing something intentionally dangerous and stupid that you really shouldn’t be doing anyways. While you might enjoy the feeling of being scared for a disciplinary style spanking, going out of your way to get a disciplinary spanking for doing something dangerous is just irresponsible. So, you come up with a role play of sorts of something that you did wrong. This could probably be silly, or made up reasons that are fun to play up as more serious than they actually are in your real life!!
Discipline spankings should really only be for real disciplinary reasons even with a couple that is both spankos. If you are in a Domestic Discipline Relationship than true disciplinary spankings should only happen when you did something seriously wrong, dangerous, or was outright against what your dom has set up for you!! When Jillian Keenan shared a recent reason that she had received a real disciplinary spanking, it was for something that was agreed upon with her Dominant that warrented serious punishment.
So, what to do when you want a spanking that seems more like discipline but you haven’t done anything seriously wrong. Answer: Funishments!! My understanding is that these are ways for people to engage in spanking play that is more on the disciplinary side of things when the Sub hasn’t done anything wrong. It is a good way to get a more traditional spanking that tends to lean towards discipline, but isn’t actually for any bad behavior!!
I actually love the sound of it. For spankos that just love to be spanked from time to time, then it is a great way to get a spanking without doing something intentionally bad or dangerous just to get a spanking.
Anyways, it is a new term to me, so I just wanted to explore it a bit.
What do others know about this whole funishments concept?
Is anyone that is actively in a DD relationship do a funishment style spanking from time to time?
How does a funishment spanking differ from a real punishment spanking for you?
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